Be Mindful Of Your Words Amongst Negativity

Be mindful of your words which can heal or hurt. 

You want to empower people, not dis-empower them. Practice boundaries as well as compassion!

If someone is being negative, simply don’t engage with them. Don’t feed the beast. Focus on channelling your frustration or righteous indignation in productive ways that will feed you back in healthy and positive ways.

Stop trying to change people. Let them take care of their own growth processes. We can’t learn for another. If their behaviour is detrimental to us, then we may choose not to be in their presence ...and that is fine.

We must love ourselves enough not to be brought down by self-destructive people. If we have many negative people in our lives, then we can look to see what pattern there is in us that attracts these people to us. When we change, we drop our pattern and we become different, the others will also change in the way they relate to our new personalities, or they will leave our lives so that new people who will appreciate us are then able to enter.

hWhichever way it happens, it is always a positive move for us when we love and accept ourselves.

Should someone want to engage with you in a negative way, don’t retaliate. Instead let them go home so they can fight with themselves. But please do pray for them!